Mum’s Dilemmas: 5 Key Questions Every Parent Should Ask

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All mums want the best for their children but, as the old cliché states, kids don’t come with a guidebook. As such, it’s your job to ensure that the right decisions and balance are maintained at all times.

Reviewing your approach can be crucial, and these five simple questions should point you in the right direction. So as we wrap up 2017 and head into the new year, let’s take a simple yet practical approach to parenting…

 

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Public Or Private School?

Academic education sits at the heart of any child’s development, and you naturally want your kids to gain the best opportunities. Children that want to learn will do so regardless of their surroundings, but sometimes, you may be surprised at the affordability of a private school. You can learn more about them at https://www.educators.co.uk/scotland/.  Whether public or private, finding the best available solution is key. Frankly, it’s never too early to begin that research.

How Much Freedom Should I Give?

When children are infants, they rely on their parents for almost everything. As they approach and enter their teen years, however, they want independence. While you don’t want them to fall into the wrong crowd, you can’t wrap them in cotton wool forever. You can start by letting them have friends stay over or letting them complete their hobbies without you. Once you start letting them do more for themselves, in today’s day, a smartphone is essential. This is for your sanity as well as their safety.

Should I Get Them To Do Chores?

As a loving parent, you must find ways to prepare your kids for adult life. With this in mind, educational growth needs to be combined with life skills and the right work ethic. Kids should be allowed to enjoy childhood, but there’s nothing wrong with using these chores to make them work for treats and pocket money. Likewise, you shouldn’t always give in to their pleas and demands. The real world is a harsh environment, teaching kids that they won’t always get their way will prepare them for those challenges.

 

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How Much Focus Should Be On Health?

Health and happiness are the two main priorities that any parent wants for their child. Unfortunately, obesity among children is one of the biggest problems among today’s kids. Your input is key, but your son or daughter needs to be involved too. Visit https://www.cdc.gov/healthyweight/children/index.html for tips on this subject. Similarly, your kids should know about other dangers ranging from strangers to the impact of head injuries. When you work together, maintaining the right lifestyle should be easy. Just try not to drain the fun out of their childhood.

Am I Doing Enough For Me?

Finally, it’s important to remember that a happy mum is inevitably a better mum. As such, it’s imperative that you learn to put yourself first for once. Simple things like ensuring you have the simple comforts for enjoyable evenings at home can make a world of difference. Meanwhile, taking care of your health and happiness sets a winning example to your kids. If that doesn’t give you an incentive to finally take note, nothing will.

A completely happy childhood relies on a host of other factors, not least love and affection. Still, use these tips to establish the foundations, and you won’t go far wrong. Go mum!

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2 Responses

    • Nicole

      True Jennie. I too notice that when I am unwell/ tired/ stressed, I’m not the greatest mum to be around. But when I’ve had a decent night’s sleep, I’m more there for Little Man.

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